5-minute Guide to Managing Debt

In a time where financial management has become a lost art, developing yourself into the mate who has learned to control yourself financially is one of the sexiest traits you can bring into a relationship. Unfortunately, too many men and women are unable to demonstrate this character trait, and today’s relationships/marriages are paying the price. My church just completed an empowerment series that focused on family, fitness, faith and finances. The finance portion was extremely insightful because it addressed an area that keeps most individuals and families in bondage. Wouldn’t it be nice to connect someone who was able to address this area prior to engaging in a relationship with you?

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that you have to earn a six-figure salary or sit with tens of thousands in assets. However, it is a realistic expectation to unite with someone who understands the value of money and cherishes the importance of planning, budgeting and limiting unnecessary expenditures. Do you need Bible? Galatians 5:23 mentions self-control as a manifestation of the fruit of the spirit. Do you need more Bible? Proverbs 13:22 tells us that we ought to leave an inheritance to our children’s children. How can we leave an inheritance to our children’s children if we don’t know where our money is going?

Here is some information that might be helpful to you if you desire to change your current financial situation:

At some point in our lives, most of us have borrowed too much. First, stop making excuses about why you're in debt. Put that energy into reducing your debt. Debt can be extremely stressful, so tell someone you're in financial trouble. If you can't talk to a family member or friend, contact an organization that deals with debt reduction, such as the nonprofit National Foundation for Credit Counseling. Then get a handle on how big your problem is. When you have no idea how much you owe, simply establishing a number is a critical first step.

Don't avoid the B-word
The best way to start reducing debt is to set up a budget, which is a good way of knowing exactly where your money going. You'll need to add up your income and subtract your expenses, then set up a plan. Be honest about your spending habits and you'll end up with a more realistic budget.
• Budget more than the minimum on credit card payments. Paying the minimum is better than nothing, but you wind up paying a lot more in interest as you chip away at the balances.
• Start an emergency fund -- a savings account that should grow to at least three months of expenses. Without an emergency fund, unexpected costs or loss of income can drive you deeper into debt.

What's your plan?
Use your budget to help you plan your debt-reduction strategy. List all of your debts, from the highest interest rate to the lowest. Aggressively pay down the highest-rate balances while making on-time minimum payments on the others. Your budget will dictate how much you can devote to paying down your balances each month. In addition, consider these tips:
• If you have the money in savings, pay off what you can.
• Use any extra cash -- bonuses, extra paychecks, etc. -- to pay down debts.
• Volunteer to work overtime, or get a second job.
If you can't earn more money, you'll need to spend less. Try these tips:
• Eat at home when possible. Avoid buying lattes and fast food.
• Go cash-only. After the bills are paid, allot yourself a certain amount of cash for gas, groceries, etc. When the cash is gone, the fun is done.
• Forgo premium cable-TV channels and high-speed Internet service. Your public library typically not only offers free Wi-Fi but computer access as well.

Consolidation is a dangerous road
As you grapple with repayment, the temptation is great to borrow from Peter to pay Paul in one lump sum. You might be better off paying your debts bit by bit.
• Consider consolidating your loans only if you have the discipline to not use your credit cards. Consolidation means you take out one loan to cover all of your existing payments. If you do transfer a balance from a card, destroy that card so you won't be tempted to run up the balance again.
• Don't use a home-equity loan to pay off credit card debt. Even if the home-equity rates are lower than your cards' interest rates, trouble looms if you run up your balances again.
• Don't borrow from your 401(k). The closer you get to retirement, the more you'll regret it.
• Skip credit-repair clinics that may charge you hundreds of dollars to fix your credit record.
• Don't stretch to buy a house, even if everyone tells you it's OK. Buying too much house could mean giving up other things you want: vacations, eating out or college for your kids.

Face up to your credit cards
Once you're out of debt, how can you stay that way? Of course, stick to your budget. In addition, figure out how to deal with credit cards, which likely got you into this mess in the first place.
• Stop charging right now.
• Cut up all but one of your cards, the one with the lowest interest rate. Use that card only for emergencies.
• If you continue to use your credit cards, pay in full every month and avoid interest charges altogether.
• Pull your credit reports once a year and check them for errors.
• Call your creditors and ask for lower rates.
• Leave your credit cards at home. Shop with a list and buy only what's on the list; don't be tempted by sale items you don't need.
• Don't use retail-store credit cards for the discounts. Chances are that card carries a high interest rate that you'll have to deal with if you don't pay off your balance each month.

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